Wednesday, August 12, 2009

sahabat yang kita sayang

setiap manusia yang wujud di atas muka ni takkan ditakdirkan hidup sorang-sorang. mereka pasti ada sahabat yang akan menemani mereka dalam hidup kita. aku juga menunggu kehadiran seseorang yang dipanggil best friend. aku menunggu dia datang dalam hidup aku. tetapi, sebagai manusia aku juga terlepas pandang sedangkan mereka ada di depan mata aku.

kini aku sangat bahagia dengan sahabat yang aku ada. aku ada wawa, shahrul, saufi, su, ilani, farid dan apis masran. apa yang telah aku belajar dari masa lepas ialah menghargai orang yang menyayangi kita. dan buat masa ini merekalah sahabat yang menghargai aku. mungkin untuk menjalinkan hubungan persahabatan tidak perlu wujud paksaan dan permintaan. apa yang perlu ialah memahami dan menghargai setiap detik yang kita ada dengan melakar memori bersama teman-teman dan keluarga yang tersayang.

tentang daus, aku dah maafkan segala-galanya, cuma tak dapat lupakan apa yang jadi antara kami berdua. walaupun sudah tidak sebulu, aku masih hormat dia sebagai seseorang sahabat yang pernah hadir dalam hidup aku. dia juga telah mengajar aku banyak benda semasa kami rapat suatu ketika dahulu. lagipun, aku rasa kedua-dua pihak telah melakukan kesilapan. aku cuma harap dia tahu aku tidak ada dendam, cuma biarlah kami ikut haluan masing-masing. ada pepatah, kalau kita sayangkan seseorang, kita akan biarkan dia terbang dari sisi jika itulah yang terbaik untuk mereka. aku berharap kami sama-sama berjaya dengan haluan yang kami bawa, tak kira dimana kami berada. semoga dia dapat terbang jauh untuk mencapai apa sahaja yang dia inginkan..

selamat tinggal, daus.....

seronok dapat berkenalan dengan kau...

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Assalamualaikum...ahlan wa sahlan para sahabat...

terima kasih kpd Galatea kerana sudi menjemput saya untuk menyumbang rasa,kata dan pengalaman yang tidak seberapa ini.....

insyaallah saya akan bercerita tentang pengalaman saya dan insan-insan yang saya kenali yang boleh kita semua jadikan panduan dalam hidup....

kali ini saya ingin berkongsi 1 cerita motivasi....
Di suatu hari yg indah,di pantai yg biru..seorang lelaki berjalan-jalan menikmati udara segar,oleh kerana air sedang surut terdapat banyak tapak sulaiman terdampar. kemudian lelaki itu berjumpa dengan seorang budak lelaki yang sedang melemparkan tapak sulaiman kembali ke dalam laut...

Lelaki itu berkata kepada budak lelaki itu..."kamu tidak akan mampu menyelamatkan semua tapak sulaiman ini..trdapat beribu-ribu tapak sulaiman sepanjag pantai ini..paling banyak pun kamu hanya mampu menyelamatkan 100 tapak sulaiman.."

Budak lelaki itu tersenyum dan membaling satu lagi tapak sulaiman ke dalam laut dan berkata.."saya telah membuat satu perubahan dengan membaling tapak sulaiman tu..."

Kawan-kawan teruslah berusaha untuk berubah ke arah kebaikkan...walaupun perubahan itu terlampau kecil namun percayalah...ia masih lagi bermakna....

Wassalam dari ALWiNe...

Monday, April 6, 2009

Krisis Identiti

ini ialah kali pertama aku menulis blog dalam bahasa melayu, memandangkan ramai yang memberi komen ialah orang melayu. tajuk yang nak aku ketengahkan ialah krisis identiti. seperti yang kita tahu.. ramai remaja yang menghadapi krisis identiti, terutamanya tentang kehadiran gays dan lesbians dalam masyarakat kita..

boleh dikatakan ramai diantara kita yang melaknat kewujudan mereka yang mengikut rentak Kaum Luth yang mengamalkan hubungan sejenis. tetapi, sebagai hamba Allah dimuka bumi, kita juga dituntut untuk membantu sedara seagama kita yang hampir terpesong daripada fitrah alam yang telah ditetapkan oleh Allah. jangan memulaukan mereka, tetapi apa kata jika kita cuba mendekati mereka dan cuba untuk mengubah mereka? mungkin itu lebih baik daripada memaki hamun mereka sedangkan perbuatan itu tidak bermoral dan tiada bermanfaat.. mari kita buktikan pada mereka bahawa masih ada ruang untuk mereka berubah menjadi normal dan diterima semula oleh masyarakat sekeliling... Insya-Allah, Allah akan bantu niat baik kita.

Saturday, April 4, 2009

Friendship and Tolerance


BEING A HUMAN, we often make mistakes that sometimes regrets us. i myself also had done one silly mistake that cause me regrets until now, or maybe for the rest of my life. when i was in semester 1, i have a friend that comes from Muar, which is located in Johor state. at first, we're just friends. after 1 month knowing each other, i decided to make him one of my best friends.

at first, everything seems so well and smooth, but everything changes. just because of misunderstanding between him and me, we ourselves destroy our bond after almost a semester we build our friendship. i was very mad and blamed on him after what he had done to me. only God knows how much i hate him.

however, time and experiences still becoming the best teachers for human. this semester, i am beginning to develop a friendship with a guy from Sarawak, a state which is well known with its location that near with Borneo. this guy is very kind and sensitive towards people feeling. honestly, he treats and comforts me when i am in need. we often share our thoughts together and starting to understand each other.

somehow, he treats me like what i wish my past friend from Muar will treats me. from here, i try to think myself. why we are fighting each other? as if we don't know each other... then, i try to rewind my memory about our past. then, a flash of light appear into my mind. we do know each other personality, but no tolerance between us.

now i know but it's too late.. after a 'cold' fight, the chance for us rekindle our relationship back as before is very tiny. now i know that friendship is meaningless without tolerance. for me, this experience teaches us how to appreciate the people who we love. i still feel very sad, but every clouds has a silver lining. now i do my best to build good memories with my best friends. learn how to forgive, how to think before we do decisions and learn to accept our weaknesses.

to all my friends that read this blog, do take this story as a guidance and try to appreciate people around us. i am not ashamed to tell this story for we are human, and human makes mistakes...

May God bless you....

Thursday, April 2, 2009

life and stress

in our daily life, we cannot avoid ourselves from stress since stress can come everywhere around us. some of them stress due to their work, others thinking about their own couple and the rest thinking about their personal conflicts in their life. i myself face a stress just about 10 minutes ago, you know... need to handle an university program and in the same time, i need to submit my project since tomorrow is my submission date. honestly, i feel the tense but i reminded myself that if i let my emotions consume me, i will make a decision that may cause a lot of negative impacts towards myself and worst, to the people who i love so much. so, i decided to relax myself by writing my new experience with the people who read my blog. and you know what? i do feel relax and enjoying myself. i cannot write too long for now since i choose to stay up in this night and trying to complete my project. the lesson that i get from this experience is think rationally before taking any kind of action because whatever step that you take will leave its footprint and it may be bad...OR it may be good. hope you also get the moral value and enjoy my blog..

love you all!!! =>

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

hello teens!!!


hi! I'm galatea.. i love to make friends,but not just a friend. i want to become a friend that can share your experiences especially when you are in a trouble. maybe i cannot help totally, but it is a pleasure if i can help you emotionally to overcome your problems. I'm not a psychologist, also not an empath, but still want to help you. Share your thoughts, feeling with me.. I'll do my best for you! just use your nickname to address yourself.

if you are malaysian, i am also does not any problems to speak malay. just use it if you prefer malay.

REMEMBER!!

' God create you not for becoming a loser, but to become somebody that can make a miracle to the world...'

and i believe you're one of it!! =>
Love you all!!!!!